The bliss of marriage is having a partner to share life’s intimate joys and sorrows. But maintaining a strong and healthy union is a difficult challenge. If they are not careful, a man and woman once very close can slowly drift apart. Can you keep this from happening to you?

YES! If you know these secrets:

• In the evening ask your spouse to share the day’s experiences with you before you do the same. give your undivided attention. Respond to the feelings expressed – don’t reject any of them.
• About half of the mistakes made in this relationship will be yours. Apologize when you make them, but don’t think a mere apology ever lets you off the hook. Make a commitment to yourself and your spouse not repeat the error. Fulfill the commitment.
• Make up after fights. Be the first to seek reconciliation. Send a note or call your spouse at/ from work. Either apologize or merely say, “I’m sorry we had such a terrible fight.” Treat your mate like a best friend.
• Support your spouse. Be his or her blocker, coach, and cheerleader. Lift your spouse up to the world.
• Never criticize the one you love to others. Never ridicule – anytime, anyplace. Never threaten or tell your spouse to get out unless you mean it – for good.
• Ask for feedback on how you’re doing. On a regular basis discuss what each of you could be doing more of, less of, and the same for each other. Don’t harbor unexpressed negative feelings; these are the seeds of alienation and separation.
• Touch your partner constantly with hugs, rubs, and handholding. Hang on to intimacy for dear life.
• Renew your wedding vows where you were married or any place in the presence of loved ones.